Dear Steve and Shirley, 

I’m a 27 year old man and I’ve been in a relationship for over a year. In the beginning, everything was great and we were in love. I accepted her son like he was my own. I love that kid and I would always spend my last dollar on them both. But now everything has fallen apart since I went snooping in her phone and saw that she was texting 2 other guys and calling them baby. She also texted a guy and said she had fun with him the night before. When I confronted her about it, she said that she was just flirting and it was nothing more than that. She got mad at me for looking through her phone. A couple of weeks ago, I was at her  apartment and all of a sudden, a guy walked in the house like he owned it. Apparently, he knew who I was cause he did not ask. I was furious but I did not start anything with him because I was not mad at him. Now she is telling me that he was nobody… then why does this “nobody” have a key? She keeps crying and telling me that she wants another chance. I know that if I leave her, she will fall apart and I will feel bad. Please help me because I simply can not trust her. 

Man to man, what should I do? 

Please help. 

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